I was 57, never married, and honestly? I was pretty close to giving up. Then I did this ritual on New Year's Eve 2017, a ritual I did every year on New Year's Eve (I'm not a NYE party girl). Something shifted! I didn't know it was nervous system work I'd been doing, but I just knew something was different.

As I sat on the sofa, I heard a voice telling me that I wanted to get engaged in 2018. Whaaa? That was oddly specific. I questioned the voice, "are you sure?" "Yes, write it down," insisted the voice. So OK, I did.

A few minutes later, the voice told me to put an ad on Craiglist personals. "OK, now that's crazy!" I told the voice, "Do you know what's on Craigslist?" "Just do it," the voice insisted. Six minutes later, I wrote a very unique ad and posted it - I woke up to 300 responses the next morning. One of them was Kenneth, although I didn't see if for a few weeks.

I did get engaged in 2018, just as the voice told me.

I manifested my husband within hours of writing down that desire. The funny thing, he wasn't looking for anyone - he was actually looking for a lawn mower! The New York Times wrote about it. And 365 days after meeting in person, we got married.

(Ok, after 41 years of dating, and a few hours after an end-of-year ritual designed to help me manifest what I wanted in 2018. 😊)

Six years later, he still brings me 18 roses every single week.

Now I help accomplished women over 50 find love by addressing what's actually in the way: a nervous system that's been on high alert for too long as well as dating techniques and advice for women our age that's easy to understand and follow.

I'm the host of the Fiftysomething Love podcast and creator of the Simply Irresistible Collective, a 12 week group program for women over 50 to attract great love.